Dating as a Nigerian Youth: The Real Struggles & Lessons Learned
Dating in Nigeria today is a rollercoaster. From sweet WhatsApp messages to unexpected ghosting, many youths are navigating love with mixed feelings. Social media, peer pressure, and economic realities have changed the dating game.
Some common challenges include:
Financial Pressure: Many guys feel they must “perform” financially, even if they’re not earning yet.
Long-Distance Love: With many students or NYSC members far from home, distance becomes a real test.
Trust Issues: Due to past hurts or the fear of heartbreak, some people find it hard to commit.
But despite these issues, Nigerian youths are learning valuable lessons:
Communication is everything.
Know your worth — don’t settle just to “belong.”
Love takes time, effort, and patience.
Whether you’re in a relationship or still searching, the journey comes with experiences that shape your views on love, life, and self-worth.
I'm Adedayo Obadina
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